What do asian females look for in a man?

[darkjusticex]

I'm just wondering this because i'm a black guy who likes asian females. It's been my experience that most asian females are quiet before you get to know them well. So it's hard to get a good read on them. Also, does race really matter to most asian females?

[● Gary ●]

I'm just wondering this because i'm a black guy who likes asian females

err...if this is a joke...u got me then .__.''
btw, abt ur question, i'm a boy so obviously i dont know the answer xD. However, i think it should be better for us to be who we are

[darkjusticex]

Nguyên văn bởi ● Gary ●

err...if this is a joke...u got me then .__.''
btw, abt ur question, i'm a boy so obviously i dont know the answer xD. However, i think it should be better for us to be who we are

No. It's not a joke. And as for you saying something about me being who I am - Yeah... I'm a black guy who likes asian females. And I don't limit myself to my own race just because we have the same skin color. I like what I like and I won't apologize for it.

[Lycoris]

Keep up that spirit , buddy.

But please bewared of racism.

And to be honest, I think most Asian females prefer Caucasian men.

Cheer

[darkjusticex]

Thanks. I know there will be racists out there who won't mind their own business about that, but i've only got one life. I will not settle for anything less than what will truly make me happy. I don't want to be married to someone I don't really want to be with. It's not fair to me and it won't be fair to the other person either.

I'm the kind of guy who will not bend to peer pressure or anyone's racist views. I don't put people in a box (in my mind). In other words, I don't think that just because someone is a certain race that they should behave any pre-set way. I am an exception to those kinds of rules, so I don't expect anyone else to be how I might think they should be.

If I wasn't strong minded in that way and would be like the world assumes I should be, I would be a weed smoking, ebonics speaking, pants hanging off my butt thug - just because i'm black. I am none of those things.... quite the opposite.... and I know that one day my dream will come true. If it doesn't happen, i'd rather spend the rest of my life alone. Seriously.

[Tereshchenko]

Even though we women have specific qualities of men we prefer, I'm pretty sure somewhere down the line everything would no longer matter.

Cheer up mate, if you're meant to be with someone, then you will be. It doesn't matter which race you belong.

I have lots of relatives who married someone of a different race and homeland. So yeah!

As for me, I do love them with beards or bald or older. /laughs

[Kazandra]

Also, does race really matter to most asian females?

Eh~? I don't think so... If u're a good guy, it's ok, though some woman may go for money and title (shame for them!)

[awell]

i'm just curious but ... what do you like about asian females ? xD

[Tereshchenko]

Oh please, it's not like we could take income out of the question, even deep inside. I mean, we're not perfect. Even we would have preferences.

[darkjusticex]

Nguyên văn bởi awell

i'm just curious but ... what do you like about asian females ? xD

Truth be told, it begins with an extremely strong attraction. You only have one life, and since I see asian females as what's more attractive to me in the world, why would i want to settle for anything else? I'm attracted to like.... 95% of the asian females out there. My personality is more like a white or asian guy's than a typical black guy's.

Asian females are used to being around guys who like stuff like video games and computers - intellectuals. Most black females actually look down on black guys who like those kinds of things. And if you are recognized as being a black male intellectual, you're never going to be seen as boyfriend or husband material. Not unless you've got something they want like money, or they've given their virginities to thug players who had no intention of ever marrying them in the first place - and NOW they want YOU to be daddy to SOMEONE ELSE'S kid. Yeah, well NOT ME. I won't fall for that game.

Most smart black guys pretend that they aren't smart in order to please females and their friends. Because being black and smart is very unpopular in america amongst the black community. I know this sounds crazy, but it's a crazy truth that i've been stuck in the middle of my whole life.

Besides. Most (not all) black females want a big dumb thug who does drugs and who wears tank top t-shirts, flip-flops and their pants falling off of their ass. All of which I would never be caught dead being like. That's who they look up to while growing up, so that's who they want to marry.

I can't change who i am, and I refuse to dumb myself down just to get the attention of a female. I'm not saying i'm the smartest person. Not at all. But I am saying that my personality does stand out amongst other american blacks once you look deeper.

Stuck between two worlds.... one that I was born into on the outside and one that i wish I was a real part of, because I don't belong to the other on the inside.


From what i've seen, if you can get them to take you seriously and love you, most asian females are respectful, loyal.... and don't look down on you for knowing what the difference is between a gigabyte and a terabyte.

I'm not saying that each and every single black female in america is like i've described, but I will say that an overwhelming majority of them ARE. And as for the ones who aren't, i wish them luck, but I know what I want.